Gentleman Companion

  • By-the-hour social companionship

  • Dinner, public events, museums, picnics, etc.

  • Enjoy the company of a well-read, well-traveled gentleman at your convenience.

women only, no sexual services

Bypass the dating app...

I’m Douglas. I offer a legitimate dinner-companion service for guests who want company without the hassle and pitfalls of dating apps. It’s professional, $150/hour with a two-hour minimum.

How it works

  1. Inquire/Book: message me with your preferred date, time, venue, and any preferences.

  2. Brief call (5–10 min): we'll confirm expectations, accessibility needs, answer any questions you'd like to ask.

  3. Confirm: a 25% deposit secures the date; balance due after our engagement.

  4. Meet at venue: arrive separately; I'll handle reservations if you like.

  5. Discreet follow‑up: I'll text you the day after; we can compare notes, perhaps discuss ideas for a future outing.

  6. Payments: major cards (Stripe/Square), Apple/Google Pay. Gratuity not expected.

Frequently Asked

  • Are you an escort? No. This is non‑sexual, professional, social companionship.

  • Who pays for dinner or tickets? The client covers all costs.

  • Will you attend private events? Let's discuss. I can imagine some nuances. Certainly public venues, staffed/private hosted events (e.g., galas, clubs). No in‑room appointments.

'Want to do something but don't have a specific event in mind? Click below for some ideas for a fun time out and about:

Booking & Contact

Message me below with any questions, or simply provide details of our event. I’ll respond with an email or text. (Providing your phone number at this point is optional.) At some point we'll chat live so I can make sure all of your questions are answered--and I may have some, too, depending upon your plans. After we set the date, place, and time, you may provide payment for a 25% deposit (that = $50 if it's for two hours) and we can start looking forward to it!

A "plus one" makes an evening more enjoyable

I’m a gentleman conversationalist for hire—platonic, public, and discreet. You pick the venue; I'll handle reservations if you'd like. I am your easy, enjoyable companion.Regarding “discreet:” I’m a man of integrity. I do not want to lie. If asked how we met, I’ll simply say “Online.” You may be fine telling your friends the story behind our being there together; I'm comfortable either way. You decide what to say or not say, and I'll follow your lead. Hey: we're having a nice time out together--there's nothing wrong with that!

Code of Conduct

  • Friendly, gracious: no sexual services.

  • Public venues only (restaurants, theaters, museums, ticketed events). No private residences or hotel rooms.

  • Respectful, harassment‑free interaction at all times. Either party may end the engagement if boundaries are not respected.

  • Separate transport; I do not drive clients (except in unusual circumstances)

  • Age 25+ clients; simple ID verification at booking.

  • Privacy & discretion: I do not share client names or photos. NDA available upon request.

Policies

  • Reschedule/Cancel: 24+ hours’ notice = deposit refunded/credited; within 24 hours = deposit forfeited; no‑show may incur 1 hour charge.

  • Running late: I’ll hold for 20 minutes within the scheduled window.

  • Alcohol: your choice; “no‑alcohol” or “one‑drink max” if you prefer.

  • Accessibility & dietary needs: gladly accommodated with advance notice.

  • Insurance & business licensing: professional operation; documentation available on request.

  • Guarantee: If after the first thirty minutes you feel the fit is off, we’ll end it with no hard feelings. I’ll refund the deposit.

'Want to gift two hours to a friend?

Once she agrees to accept this fun gift, mention that it is for your friend when you book. As normal, you will only be charged the deposit until after the event.

Ideas

  • A free concert at the UW School of Music, with dinner, or coffee, afterwards

  • Something at the Overture Center

  • Handel's "Messiah" at Bethel Lutheran with the WI Chamber Orchestra Nov 21 & 22 https://www.wcoconcerts.org/events/messiah25

  • Various lecture series at the UW

  • American Players Theatre (APT)

  • Take dancing lessons together; perhaps stay after to practice

  • It need not just be the two of us; perhaps a meal, or any of the above, with some of your friends. And if you are comfortable telling them the nature of our being together, I'm fine with that as well. They may find it fun, intriguing, and hilarious. (Likewise, if you prefer to keep it a secret, we can have fun keeping the secret!)

Thank you for your message; I'll respond with an email soon.

It will come from my email address: [email protected].I look forward to chatting with you,Douglas

(The below is just for fun; I don't expect you to take me up on it.
But if you do, I'll be delighted, and most gladly pay your reward!)

$25 off if you can name this poem, and recite this stanza for me during our first event:

Far from the madding crowds' ignoble strife,
Their sober wishes never learned to stray.
Along the cool sequestered vale of life
They kept the noiseless tenor of their way.